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Happily Ever After or Divorce Court? Signs According to Wedding Planners!

Happily Ever After or Divorce Court? Signs According to Wedding Planners!

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The other day, I was browsing Facebook and this HuffPost story popped up about "EXPERTS and marriages" Usually, I swiped right past those because, and although I do believe there are experts in some fields, but been able to predict the future, well no one sold me on that yet. But what did catch my attention was the last two four words in the title, "7 Signs A Marriage Will Last, According To Wedding Planners." 

Like I said the word EXPERT is use so loosely nowadays, I was reluctant to read the story but then I thought of past weddings and events that I helped plan and remembered having to listen to the bride-to-be or hostess share their back stories, sort of like a therapist would listen to. so then it dawned on me, 

'Holy Sh*t Batman! I'm an EXPERT!

Then I
Clicked on the story and have to confess I almost 100% agreed with everything. It's really not that hard to spot future obstacles or road blocks. We all know a couple where one voice overbears the other. Her opinion is more important than his or vice-versa. My favorite, "this is 'my' wedding," instead of ours. Or emphasis is made on having the perfect wedding for pictures instead of a "love-day." 

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Happily Ever After or Divorce Court? Signs According to Wedding Planners!

So the article made sense. Like I always say, "if something is bothering you today, no matter how much you try to ignore it, it will bother you later." So if the bride-to-be or future hubby feels like they should be in charge of EVERY decision making, this will ultimately be a big problem later. And yes I get it, men don't plan things, but it's also their day and they should not be put on the back burner while we satisfy our needs to be perfect.

Happily Ever After or Divorce Court? Signs According to Wedding Planners!

So what are those warning signs that HuffPost speak of? Well, the first thing the article points out is:

1. They’re willing to compromise.

A couple’s ability to give and take is crucial, not just when deciding on a wedding venue or a cake flavor but also for the success of the relationship as a whole. Sometimes it means meeting in the middle, other times it means letting your partner have it their way, knowing that they’d do the same for you.

“In wedding planning and in marriage, being able to understand the perspective of your mate and adapt to find solutions that you can both live with is a key skill.”. . .read more!

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